Finding your people, the journey to true connection...
There’s something truly powerful about finding your people—the ones who uplift you, challenge you, and make you feel at home in a world that can sometimes feel isolating. But if you’ve ever felt like finding the right friendships and support system takes time, you’re not alone. Meaningful connections don’t always happen overnight, but when they do, they are absolutely worth the wait.
From childhood friendships to college bonds to work acquaintances, we cross paths with so many people throughout life. But true connections—the ones that feel effortless, safe, and deeply supportive—can be rare. And that’s okay and actually preferred. Not every relationship is meant to last forever, and sometimes, growth means outgrowing certain spaces and people. And that is tough! I’ve had my share of those heartbreaks and there is nothing fun about them. Sometimes it makes you question your journey, are you too hard on others, are you expecting too much from people - no, you aren't. You are honoring yourself and your standards.
If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite “fit” in certain circles, it’s not a flaw—it’s a sign that your people are still out there. The journey to finding them isn’t about settling for surface friendships; it’s about seeking out those who align with your values, passions, and energy. The key is to not be discouraged. It is worth the time to do the work.
When you find your people, you’ll notice:
• They cheer for your wins like they’re their own.
• They show up when things get hard.
• They offer honesty, love, and accountability without judgment.
• They remind you of your strength on days when you forget.
These are the people who will celebrate your successes, sit with you in your struggles, and remind you of your worth when you need it most. These are the people that you need to do life with. The people you need to walk this beautiful and sometimes not so beautiful path with in life.
Take a look at your daily habits and decide if you are doing all you can to find those people. Here are a couple of things to consider:
1. Put Yourself in the Right Spaces – Join groups, events, or communities that align with your interests. Whether it’s a book club or a fitness group, you’ll meet people who share your passions.
2. Be Open & Vulnerable – Authentic connections require authenticity. Don’t be afraid to show up as your true self—flaws, dreams, and all. It truly will help you weed out those who are not for you and that is a blessing.
3. Let Go of What No Longer Serves You – Sometimes, we hold on to relationships out of habit, even when they don’t bring us joy or support. It’s okay to outgrow people. Make space for the ones who truly align with you. It is ok for people to be a season or a reason in your life, not everyone is a "lifetimer"!
4. Be the Friend You Want to Have – Support, uplift, and encourage the people around you. When you create a culture of kindness and empowerment, you’ll attract the same energy back.
The right people and friendships—the ones that feel like home—are worth the time and effort. Surround yourself with people who remind you of your strength, who inspire you to grow, and who stand beside you through every season of life.
And when you find them, hold them close and don't let go :)
Xoxo,
Jody